Sunday, April 19, 2015

Baby Timeline - Final Countdown, Weeks 35 & 36

April 6th: Antenatal testing.  Baby is a champ.  Great amniotic fluid, great heartbeat tracing.  I love getting to see him twice each week!

April 8th: OB appointment at 35 weeks 4 days, and I gained 3.7 lbs in the last 2 weeks and my fundal height is measuring 37 cm!  I am definitely making up for lost time!  Everything is looking good - just starting to discuss plans for the upcoming weeks and preparation for delivery.

We are half-way through our birthing classes!

April 9th: Antenatal testing and everything looks great!

April 10th: I wake up in the middle of the night sick, sick, sick!  We call L&D and they have me come in for fluids and monitoring.  I got a new anti-nausea med and they let me go when I was able to keep down fluids.  Then I slept almost every single hour for the next two days.

We are due in one month!

April 12th: I reach 36 weeks!

April 13th: Antenatal testing.  Looking fab!  Which is reassuring because I am still feeling way, way sick.  No more "gory details" but I am so weak and tired and shakey and light-headed and nauseas.  This stomach bug has really knocked me out.  :/

April 15th: OB appointment at 36 weeks 4 days, and I lost 2.7 lbs this week from being so sick!  No good!  But things are looking great besides that.  Now I have OB appointments weekly.

Birthing class #4.

April 16th: Antenatal testing.  Fluid is good - I'm so grateful because I have been so dehydrated from being sick.  I was on the heartbeat & uterine activity monitors for an hour, though, instead of the normal 20 minutes.  Baby needs to have 4 heartbeat accelerations to pass the test and he decided to take a nap!  Then, he woke up and was really active so we had to wait for him to calm down!  Cute boy.  I think my body is getting ready for labor, though, because my uterine activity was non-stop, and I could feel it!

April 17th: Ben & I met with the Pediatric Urologist for a consultation today.  I was hoping for more of an idea of what will happen in the future (to help us plan our summer locations and summer health insurance), but it truly is a wait-and-see game.

Right after birth, as in while we're still in the hospital, Baby will have an ultrasound to determine, more exactly, where the problem lies.

He will also have a procedure right after birth called a VCUG (voiding cystourethrogram) where a catheter is entered and a radiocontrast agent is used to look at anatomy and activity in the bladder in real-time x-ray.

About 6 weeks after birth, Baby will have one of two procedures, whichever the doctor decides is best.  1) A MAG 3 Lasix Renal Scan, where a radiocontrast agent is used again, but is inserted through an IV, and pictures are taken to look for kidney function, size, shape, position, and blockage of urinary flow.  2) A CT Urogram, where a radiocontrast agent is again inserted through an IV and through x-ray the kidneys, ureters, and bladder are examined.

It's all very confusing.  It was confirmed today that both kidneys have moderate dilation and the right ureter is dilated.  Based on the amount of dilation (Baby is pretty low on the "problem" scale), there is a small chance that he will need surgery, and that would happen about 6 months after birth.  If no surgery is needed, Baby will need an ultrasound every 3 months for at least the first year.  Then we will just see how it is going.

It makes me sad that our tiny, sweet baby will need to have these procedures done.  But, I am so grateful for Medi-Cal and good medical care!  This little boy sure is loved!!

I have one more kidney-specific ultrasound for a final assessment before birth next week.


Also today, Ben & I went to Costco and did some major stocking up and nesting!  I do believe that we have enough toilet paper and paper towels and Lysol wipes and dishwasher soap to last us a lonnng time.  We also stocked up on freezer meals for the next few weeks when I am really tired and for after birth!

April 18th: Lots of nesting going on here!  Getting cleaned up and organized . . yet my to-do list keeps growing?  We are surely getting excited!

If you think I've had a lot of appointments, take a look at our April calendar.  Almost every thing on here is some sort of appointment, whether it's antenatal testing, OB, primary care doctor, kidney visit, birth class . . It helps the time pass quickly to be busy like this so I don't mind.




Tuesday, April 7, 2015

Baby Timeline - Final Countdown, Weeks 33 & 34

March 20th: Mom hosted a sweet luncheon for me and some ladies in the ward I grew up in.


March 25th: OB appointment at 33 weeks 3 days - I gained 4.2 lbs in the last 2 weeks.  Wowza!  My blood pressure was high, but fundal height was measuring ahead at 35 cm and Baby's heartbeat sounded great!  Because of the kidney pyelectasis, the doctor is having me start antenatal testing twice a week from now until I deliver this sweet child.  That means that twice each week I'll go to the Fetal Diagnostics Unit at the hospital and do a Non-Stress Test (NST) and an Amniotic Fluid Index (AFI).  I start Monday.

Ben & I had our first, in a series of six, birth class.  We are taking classes at Bini Birth in Sherman Oaks and I think they will be great and super helpful - good information and knowledge plus learning and practicing coping mechanisms.

March 28th: My visiting teacher hosted the cutest baby shower for me and Babe!  The theme was the alphabet and we painted wood letters to hang in Baby's room - pictures to follow because they are so cute!  We also had a waffle bar with little waffles, syrup, peanut butter, Nutella, chocolate chips, strawberries, powdered sugar, and whipped cream.  Orange juice and water to drink.  And little bags of alphabet crackers from Trader Joe's as parting gifts!  Joanna & Natalie both made the effort to come from farther away and that was really special.

I can't believe I only got one picture!  Natalie & I with one of the letters I painted.  Baby J.  :)


Also, Ben's sister Ashley created the invitations and I love them!



March 29th: I am 34 weeks pregnant and totally exhausted.  Too exhausted to stop at the temple and take a bump picture after Church!

March 30th: First antenatal testing: amniotic fluid looks great (I was 13.something and normal is between 8 and 25.) and heart beat looks great!  I had a Braxton Hick while I was on the monitor and it was kind of cool to watch the line go up and come back down.  I hope I'll be singing the same tune in a few weeks.  :)

March 31st: To IKEA to buy Baby a dresser - we've got to get things in order now!

April 1st: Growth & Pyelectasis Follow-up scan at the Fetal Diagnostics Unit in the hospital.  Baby is looking good - I am so proud of him.  His growth is back up to about the 72nd percentile and his estimated weight is about 5.7 pounds.  The doctor could also tell that he has hair!  So cute.  The kidneys didn't look terribly worse, but they didn't look any better.  What was really interesting was that the doctor seemed to be able to see where the problem might be and it looks to be between the ureter and the bladder on one side.  Typically Pyelectasis will resolve on its own as the child grows up because the problem is due to immaturity of the kidney system, but it appears that we have an actual problem here, so that will not be the case.  Most likely some sort of intervention will be needed.  But, we won't really know anything more until we meet with the pediatric urologist on the 17th.  I'm so grateful for good medical care and the reassurance that Babe will receive the care and attention that he needs now and after birth!  What a blessing!

April 2nd: Antenatal testing.  Looking good!

April 4th & 5th: General Conference.  For some reason, maybe because families are talked about so much during conference, I have always counted conferences not being pregnant.  "Oh, another General Conference and I'm not pregnant.  Surely by next conference . . "  Well, last conference, I was pregnant, but I was totally out of it.  That was the day Alere came to get me all set up and I was connected to the Zofran pump and home IVs.  And this conference, I turned 35 weeks pregnant!  During conference one year ago I was saying "surely by next conference . ." and one year later, I am 5 weeks away from my due date.  I have always been blessed, but the blessings I have received in the past year seem to me like miracles.


Thursday, April 2, 2015

Spring Break in Merced

It was so nice for Ben to have a break from school in between quarters, to get away from LA for a little while, and spend some time with my family in Merced.


Mom hosted a lovely little luncheon for some ladies in the ward, Baby, and me.



Ben competed in the Pacheco Triathlon and won the whole thing!  But . . the race was a fundraiser for a high school's swim & water polo teams so they were trying to save money and gave out the unclaimed trophies from last year.  Ben was the overall champion . . and his trophy says "Second Place."  Classic!


I love this picture.  I never have pictures of me at Ben's races, but Scott took this of me cheering for Ben at the start - I totally love cheering him on.



High five!







The very exciting "finish line."


And then Ben looked up at Scott & me and said "Did I win?"  Yes!





Ben, Dad, & Tom all have March birthdays so we celebrated with some yummy cake & ice cream.


After the birthday boys sang themselves a lovely rendition of "Happy Birthday" . . 


And blew out their candles.  So cute, guys.


On Dad's actual birthday, Team RM Cycling went for a ride.



While we were in Merced I got to spend some really beautiful time with Grandma & Grandpa Rowan.  I grew up about a mile from them and they are such a big part of my life.




And, I just thought this rose and this sunset were particularly pretty.  Thanks, Merced!